Overweight, more than simply a physical issue, can be a manifestation of unresolved emotional conflicts. Often, people turn to food as a way to cope with stress, anxiety, anger, or sadness, leading to a cycle of weight gain and frustration.

Overweight may be related to emotional deficiencies, personal history situations, or deep-rooted emotional conflicts. It often manifests as a form of protection or as a symbolic expression of internal emotions.

Correspondence with the 3rd Stage (Movement, Valuation)

When we talk about overweight and obesity, the factors to analyze are many, perhaps too many. On one hand, obesity is a highly "structural" issue, meaning it's very difficult to find the real conflict that triggers it, and of course, to this, we must add that in most cases, it's a conflict that continues to repeat for a long time. It's a constant feeling of "danger". Therefore, all cases of overweight respond to different motives and only those who truly want to lose weight while solving their emotional problem can be released.

Obesity is caused by excessive accumulation of adipose tissue in the body or by fluid retention (these are less common cases).

• When weight is progressively increasing, we're talking about fat obesity.
• When we talk about a very rapid weight gain in a few days, it's fluid obesity.

Depending on where we accumulate fat, we will know the meaning of our obesity because the area with the most overweight will always have an unconscious symbolism.

Obesity can have several causes, but in all cases, the affected person felt humiliated in childhood and still fears feeling shame, that someone will be ashamed of them, or that someone will shame them. Excess weight is protection against those who ask too much of them, because this person knows that it's difficult for them to refuse and tends to carry everything on their shoulders. It's also possible that the person has felt imprisoned for a long time. They feel like the filling of a sandwich and must be divided into four to keep the people around them happy. The more they want to make others happy and be considered a good person, the harder it is for them to recognize their true needs.

It also often happens that a person accumulates too much fat to not be desired by the opposite sex, either for fear of being cheated on or for not being able to say "no".

Being overweight is often a manifestation of deeper emotional struggles and traumas. The body can use excess weight as a shield, protecting the individual from perceived threats, whether they are emotional, psychological, or social. Understanding the emotional roots of weight gain is crucial for holistic healing.

1. Emotional Protection:
Excess weight can serve as a form of emotional protection. Individuals who have experienced trauma, abuse, or emotional neglect may unconsciously use weight as a barrier to keep others at a distance, protecting themselves from further harm.

2. Repressed Emotions:
Unresolved emotions such as anger, sadness, and frustration can contribute to weight gain. Instead of expressing these feelings, individuals might turn to food as a coping mechanism, leading to a cycle of emotional eating and weight gain.

3. Fear of Vulnerability:
Carrying excess weight can be a way to avoid vulnerability. By maintaining a larger body size, individuals might feel less exposed and less likely to be hurt emotionally or physically by others.

4. Low Self-Worth:
Feelings of low self-worth and inadequacy can drive individuals to seek comfort in food. The temporary relief provided by eating can become a substitute for the self-love and validation they lack.

5. Identity and Belonging:
For some, being overweight can become part of their identity, shaping how they see themselves and how they believe others perceive them. This identity can be difficult to change, as it is tied to their sense of belonging and acceptance.

Holistic Healing for Overweight Individuals

Addressing overweight issues from a holistic perspective involves recognizing and healing the emotional and psychological roots of weight gain. Here are some approaches to facilitate this process:

1. Emotional Awareness:
Encourage individuals to become aware of their emotional triggers and patterns. Journaling, therapy, and mindfulness practices can help them identify and process their emotions.

2. Self-Compassion:
Cultivating self-compassion is essential. Individuals should learn to treat themselves with kindness and understanding, especially when they struggle with weight-related issues.

3. Healthy Coping Mechanisms:
Teach individuals healthier ways to cope with stress and emotions, such as physical activity, creative outlets, or talking to a trusted friend or therapist.

4. Releasing the Past:
Working through past traumas and unresolved issues is crucial. Therapies such as EMDR, somatic experiencing, or traditional talk therapy can help individuals release the emotional weight they carry.

5. Building a Support System:
Encourage the creation of a supportive network of friends, family, or support groups. Having a community can provide encouragement, accountability, and a sense of belonging.

6. Mind-Body Connection:
Practices like yoga, meditation, and Tai Chi can help individuals reconnect with their bodies and develop a healthier relationship with themselves.

7. Setting Realistic Goals:
Help individuals set realistic and achievable health goals. Celebrate small victories and progress, focusing on overall well-being rather than just weight loss.

Case Study: Overcoming Emotional Eating and Weight Gain

Maria, a 35-year-old woman, struggled with her weight for most of her adult life. She often turned to food for comfort during stressful times, leading to a cycle of weight gain and self-criticism. Through holistic therapy, Maria discovered that her emotional eating was rooted in childhood trauma and feelings of inadequacy.

With the support of a therapist, Maria worked on processing her past experiences and learned healthier ways to cope with her emotions. She incorporated mindfulness practices and joined a supportive community that encouraged her journey towards self-acceptance and healing. Over time, Maria noticed not only a gradual weight loss but also a significant improvement in her emotional well-being.

This case highlights the importance of addressing the emotional and psychological aspects of weight gain. By understanding and healing these deeper issues, individuals like Maria can achieve lasting change and improve their overall quality of life.

Reflective Questions for Healing:

• What emotions do I feel when I turn to food for comfort?
• Are there specific situations or people that trigger my emotional eating?
• How can I express my emotions in a healthier way?
• What past experiences might be contributing to my current weight issues?
• How can I develop a more compassionate relationship with my body?
• Who can I turn to for support on my journey towards healing?

1. I am worthy of love and respect, just as I am.
2. I honor my body and treat it with kindness and care.
3. I release the past and embrace a healthier future.
4. I am in tune with my emotions and express them in healthy ways.
5. I choose to nourish my body with healthy and nutritious foods.
6. I am patient and compassionate with myself on my healing journey.
7. I am surrounded by supportive and loving people.
8. I trust in my ability to make positive changes in my life.
9. I am grateful for my body and all that it does for me.
10. I embrace my true self and celebrate my uniqueness.

The Emotional Meaning of Overweight #

Most of us know "someone" who daily avoids sweets and desserts, eats salads all the time, rejects abundant portions of pasta, or runs on weekend mornings, and despite efforts, still wonders how to keep weight under control.

They become so sad or discouraged that they often succumb to the temptation to start "miracle" diets that affect their health or, conversely, engage in binge eating due to stress, anxiety, anger, or depression which they interpret as "self-punishment" for their defeat against the scale.

Perhaps it's time to see what's emotionally happening in your life.

Function and Symbolism of Overweight #

Meaning of Overweight in Each Body Part #

Meaning of Overweight in Abdomen:

• "I feel like my life is controlled by my partner."
• "I must protect my children."
• "I don't want any more children."

Meaning of Overweight in Shoulders and Arms:

• "I must be strong."
• "I must appear strong."
• "I must win, be better."

Meaning of Overweight in Hanging Belly or Genitals:

• "I protect my sexuality, I don't want sexual relations."
• "I feel sexually inferior."
• "I feel my genitals won't be accepted."

Meaning of Overweight in Hips and Thighs:

• "I protect myself from being raped or touched."
• "The wider I am, the less attractive."
• "I don't want sex."

Meaning of Overweight in Face and Neck:

• "I'm not pretty, attractive."
• "I fear rejection."
• "Nobody likes me."

Meaning of Overweight in the Whole Body:

• "I must appear strong and confident."
• "I must pretend I'm fine."
• "I must pretend nothing is wrong."
• "I must pretend I'm happy and content."
• "I already have what I want, I don't need to search anymore."

What is the Emotional Need Associated with Overweight? #

• "I need protection."
• "I protect myself from..."
• "They abandoned me."
• "They cheated on me."
• "They hurt me."
• "Don't touch me."
• "Don't rape me."
• "I don't want to be sexually attractive to you."
• "I'm worthless."
• "I'm only valued for my body."
• "I only want to be a mother, not a woman."
• "I've been cheated on so many times, no more."
• "I must be strong, big."
• "I can't show weakness."
• "I don't believe in anything or anyone."
• "I'm not pretty, nobody likes me."

Subconsciously, the body seeks to cover itself with a "camouflage," a protective shield to prevent us from being hurt and to offer us a space to exist. That's why the false idea of being fine or feeling fine is indirectly created. Of being happy while obese. Because it's part of the lie. And as long as we don't accept our fears, there won't be weight loss, and we'll live trapped in it.

In every case of obesity, from biodecoding therapy, there's an emotional conflict that triggers it and another conflict that maintains it. And that conflict that maintains obesity can last a lifetime.

Transgenerational: A person can be obese because they're the eldest son or daughter, due to the family order of "having to be strong."

Emotional: A person can be obese because they've suffered and love disappointments, leading them to think it's pointless to be attractive. "I'm afraid to fall in love again" or..."

Family: A person can be obese because they don't feel loved or supported by their family or partner.

Protection: A person can be obese to defend themselves from sexual attacks, to appear repulsive to their predator.

Beliefs: A person can be obese as they have more children because they falsely believe they've stopped being a woman, and now their children and duty as a mother come first, forgetting their sexuality. In this way, they push away their partner so they won't seek them sexually.

Emotional Eating: A person may feel lonely and find in food their only distraction, pleasure, and fun.

Bubble: A person can be obese because they're the youngest child and have received the project of "taking care of and carrying the parents," the staff child. Need to be strong and big.

Overweight and Abandonment Syndrome #

Obesity, as mentioned earlier, can be due to feeling alone and abandoned. Generally, in the face of abandonment, there's a feminine attitude and a masculine one. It can be parental abandonment, partner abandonment, children abandonment, etc.

The Feminine: Flee, therefore, I lose weight, lose my appetite.

The Masculine: Pretend strength, widen, become strong, retain liquids, store fat.

Overweight, Devaluation, and Powerlessness #

When we don't feel recognized or loved, we may gain weight. Overweight individuals often have feelings of fear and feel unprotected. Food becomes a palliative for their dissatisfaction. Overweight is also related to accumulation, both of things and emotions.

Overweight in Children #

Many parents think that any problem their children have can be solved by stuffing them with food. These children, when they grow up, find their only solution to problems in food. Other parents force their children to eat, threatening so they'll eat. A child won't die of hunger; if they don't want to eat, they won't eat. Let's learn from that.

Emotional Release Techniques #

Some key questions to work on emotional overweight:

• What metaphorical sense does accumulating fat or liquid in this part of my body have?
• What am I really accumulating and why?
• Why don't I let energy and emotions flow?
• What am I hiding behind the fat?
• Who or what do I resemble with this image?
• Have I been seen by my parents?
• Have I had enough space to grow among my siblings?
• Am I feeding my lack of love with excess food?

7 Emotional Exercises to Lose Weight Without Leaving Home #

• Work on your self-esteem, fears, and emotional deficiencies.
• Be able to discern reality from imagination.
• Learn to express your emotions.
• Go out into the world.
• Change your mental attitude towards life.
• Set small achievable and realistic goals for yourself.
• Walk, run, dance. HAVE FUN!

10 Emotional Keys That Will Help You Lose Weight. Biodecoding of Diseases #

• Recognize that you're a sensitive person.
• Observe your body beyond the physical.
• Discover the hidden reason for your obesity.
• Make decisions for change.
• Erase all humiliations from your mind and heart and love yourself.
• Accept that the solution will come from your way of eating and exercising.
• Change your eating habits.
• Exercise.
• Release burdens that aren't yours.
• Admit that there are people who love you.
• Love yourself fully and recognize your value, importance, and intelligence.

In the end, it's necessary to love and approve of yourself, trust in the process of life, and place our internal security in the knowledge of the power of our own mind. That's the basis of the best emotional diet that exists.

**Act today! Your emotional and physical well-being will